Now don't get me wrong I do love my Mum and Dad but I just don't want to have to go and see them It is a long way and none of us 4 want to go but I feel we havn't been for a long time and duty calls. I wish it was different and we *wanted* to go and see her but we don't. We will spend all the time there sitting in the lounge "chatting" which will bore the 2 boys senseless. The TV is not allowed to be on as we are guests there is no PC, no games console and by the end of the weekend we will be very relived to get home. Thankfully we are staying at a Travel Lodge which means we can escape and have a breather away from them and have other relatives to call on but she has already phoned and is trying to *organise * us into what she thinks we should be doing and who we should see. But I have put my footdown and said we will make plans as we go along and see what the weather is like. Wish me Luck... D